Discreet

What we keep

• Who you are to us: the email you gave, your password (stored only as a hash), a first name, your birth date and your gender entry, and whatever you add on your page.
• Your threads and the notes each woman keeps on you, so she can remember.
• A session cookie, plus another that shows you passed the door.
• Payment records: the amount, and the transfer's reference number. A card number never reaches us, since cards are not taken.
• Ordinary server logs, held briefly for security.

What we use it for

We use it for three things: operating the chat, enforcing the rules and keeping the doors open. An AI model on our own hardware, or one run by a supplier tied to that job, processes your messages, and screening software reads them for safety. We do not sell your chats, and no advertiser sees them.

Counting visitors

A bare counter records how many visitors arrived and which country they were in. It does not read your threads.

Your controls

Each thread's menu lets you alter her notes, take a copy or clear it. To erase the account with everything in it, mail the door from the account's own address. Should your country's law grant additional rights, cite them and we will honour them.